Sound Byte: And of Course, Oliver…

There is a reason why I didn’t have any sound bytes for Oliver this week. Speech isn’t his strong suit. He says and does plenty of hilarious things that make me laugh, but they’re not always the kind of stories that other people would understand. It’s all very, “you had to be there” – these anecdotes in the world of developmental delays…

But in just a few words of his off kilter conversational stylings – he can reduce me to a muddy puddle in the public showers of motherhood tears:

Oliver: Big hug Mommy!

Me: [gasping for air in his bone crushing embrace] I love your hugs honey. They’re the best ones.

Oliver: Best hugs, Mommy. Best friend hug.

Then time stopped and I didn’t know if I’d ever breathe again.

Through the series of fireworks exploding in my heart [LOVE! HOPE! FEAR! ANGER! GRATITUDE! aaaand….wait for it….wait for it….UNREASONABLE, UNMITIGATED FAITH THAT IT WILL ALL TURN OUT OKAY!], I wished with every fiber of my being that he’ll one day look at me and roll his eyes at the ridiculous notion that his mother would ever be his best friend.

If that makes any sense.

16 thoughts on “Sound Byte: And of Course, Oliver…

  1. gwenniepie

    Agreed. Total sense.

    PS Loved the pulled pork videos. I would like to see Hood children videos – since I can never seem to get over and actually sit for them!

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  2. Jo

    That's so heart-touching and sweet.
    You said I'm your best friend so you can be his. After all, if your Mom's not your best friend, who is?

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  3. annechovie

    This is sweet, Kate. I love your writing. Also, a big thanks for that very kind comment on Laura Trevey's blog. Big hug from me, too!

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